Monday, August 1, 2011

Our Brave Little Boy

The first month of our Nathan's life has been... a trial to say the least! As some of you may already know Nathan was born with a genetic disorder called Osteogenesis Imperfecta (some people have heard of it as brittle bone disease). Basically, there is a genetic mutation that affects the collagen in his body. While collagen is involved in a number of places in our bodies, the most affected area are his bones, which are extremely brittle and break very easily. OI (as it is called) occurs about 1 in every 20,000 babies born and can vary greatly in severity. We still don't know what the longterm prognosis will be, but are hoping and praying for the best outcome possible. As I mentioned in the last post he was born with a broken arm but that isn't all. Along with the ulnar fracture that was splinted, he was born with a dozen other breaks, including several fractures in both femurs, broken arms, broken ribs and breaks in both clavicles. Since birth, he has had a broken leg, and a broken arm (which ironically enough was actually probably caused by the weight of the splint on the lower part of his arm).

This was of course a big shock, since there was no indication of any problems during the ultrasounds, etc. We only found out about his condition the morning after he was born when the pediatrician came in and told us she was worried that he had short legs, and one of them was actually shorter than the other. It was at that point that we wondered if he had broken his legs because we had realized that he would scream everytime he was moved or jostled.

To add insult to injury, 2 weeks later we noticed that he had swelling in his chest. Our little guy had developed some breast tissue (apparently not terribly uncommon). The doctor reassured us that it was perfectly normal and would go away with time. We thought it was pretty funny, and made a mental note to point this out to any future girlfriends, but otherwise forgot about it. As luck would have it 3 days later we noticed that it was getting bigger and very red so once again we went to the doctor to have it looked at and she said that he had gotten mastitis.Apparently if an infant is in need of antibiotics before 28 days old they prefer to administer them by IV so off to Primary childrens hospital (again) for 2 days to get antibiotics.

Inspite of it all we're doing our best to keep a positive attitude. We feel extremely blessed at the circumstances that have led us to where we are today. Nathan has been accepted to Shriners Hospital SLC. They specialize in orthopedics and are located 20 mins from our house. When we were searching for jobs 2 years ago we were struggling with the decision to come back to Utah but kept feeling that taking this job was the right thing to do, and now we know it was the right thing to do!!!

Nathan is doing great right now, all of his fractures all healed and he hasn't had one in almost 4 weeks. He's a very good baby and is now starting to smile and make cute baby sounds. I'm not sure why he is meant to have this trial but I know like all of God's mysteries, one day we'll know and it will all make sense. I'm so grateful for all the meals and help we have received this last month and I am especially grateful for all the prayers that have been said for Nathan. We know that he has been the subject of hundreds of prayers, and has been put on prayer rolls at temple all over the country. Thank you all so much!
(broken bones might be a big topic in our house right now!)

Monday, July 18, 2011

Nathan

Well here is our Nathan...I know he's a month old already but better late than never!

Here are a few of his pictures from his hospital shoot (We were very impressed by the new hospital pictures)



Nathan with his really big splint.  He was born with a broken arm so they decided to splint it which didn't last long to say the least!


Sunday, February 13, 2011

Growing up...

So life has been a lot crazy around here the last few months, hopefully we can say that with all the challenges and changes that we've encountered the last 2 months we've learned a few lessons and grown a little more.




First of all Happy Birthday Blakey!!! I can't believe our little Blake is 2! Where did the time go?  He's growning up so fast (in every way but physically, he's still way underweight and we're working on that).  He knows all his colors, most of his shapes, and is in the process of potty training...we're not 100% yet, but we're getting there.  It doesn't really matter though because he looks really cute running around in his undies!



We tried to make it a great birthday for him despite cutting 2 molars, having an ear infection, and the whole family was recovering from strep.


We've also grown into a new car.  Thanks to Grandma and Grandpa Mills for lending us their van while on their mission for the next 2 years.  And the timing was impeccable because as we were driving to Colorado for their farewell we hit a patch of ice in the middle of Wyoming and wrecked the Camry...blessings come in unexpected ways sometimes.















In addition to all of that we've decided to buy a house...why not!!! We're excited and nervous about the whole process, and definitely dreading the packing (didn't we just do this?) and we're definitely excited for all the extra room we'll have.
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We're hoping to be all moved in by this weekend because.... when you get a van and buy a house the next logical thing to do would be to have baby #3!




We had our ultrasound and decided to NOT find out what we're having! I guess we just wanted to save some surprises for the rest of the year... so we'll have to wait until June to find out.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

A wedding, Halloween, and Other Fun

Well, lots to report since the last post. I was sworn in as a member of the Utah bar, my parents, Lindsay's parents, my grandparents, my brother and his fiancee, and my sister-in-law all came to support me. I'm sure glad to have such a great family! My brother was married a few days before Halloween, and that meant that we had lots of cousins in town for Halloween. It was awesome! Finally, Hailey's been hoping for snow ever since we got to Utah, and the weather finally obliged a couple of weeks ago. Today is looking like it is going to be a great Thanksgiving. Hope everyone else has a Happy Thanksgiving too!





Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Moving On

I found out on Saturday that I passed the bar exam. It's a funny thing, it seems like something you ought to be excited about, but it's sort of a no-win in some ways. It's not that big of a deal to anyone when you pass, but it would have been a very big deal if I had failed. So, I'm relieved, now I can really move on with my life. Speaking of which, I love it when Lindsay and the kids come downtown and visit me at the office













Friday, September 3, 2010

What a Summer!

Now that it's September, I suppose it's finally time I got around to updating our blog. We sure miss all of our friends, who are now spread all over the country, and we love seeing photos of you and your kids. We'll try and do better to keep our blog updated too. Well, the last post with any new photos or information was back on the 4th of July, so here goes the rest of July and August:

A visit to Wheeler Farms

















A hike or two in the great outdoors






















A visit to Lagoon

















Hailey started swimming lessons

















A long awaited honeymoon...in San Diego






















A view of San Diego from Coronado Island


















Romantic Sunset at La Jolla Cove


















A visit to the San Diego Temple























My baby sister Julie's wedding in Denver


















Garden of the Gods with cousins

















Hailey's first day of preschool























Well, if you made it through all of that...you're pretty much caught up with us. Hailey is loving preschool. Blake is loving going on bike rides with mommy while Hailey is at preschool. Lindsay is staying busy (I'll put up some photos of her most recent projects in a few days), and I'm still getting used to having to work a real job, with real responsibility. I hope your summer was as much fun as ours!







Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Travelers

It's been a long time since I last posted. I took the bar at the end of July, and we've been busy since then. We've went to Colorado the day after the exam, and stayed the rest of the weekend. Hopefully we'll get some pictures from my family, and post them soon. The Bench family reunion is this weekend, then Lindsay and I are finally going on a vacation, just the two of us. Thinking about going on a little trip, made me think about all of the amazing places Lindsay and I have visited since we first met over 5 years ago. Hopefully I'll have something more recent to post about, but here's the list of all the places I could think of that we have visited over the last few years, and photos of those places, when I could find them...

Provo, Manti, and Salt Lake City, Utah
Rapids City, South Dakota
Jackson Hole, Wyoming
Colorado Springs, Colorado
Fort Collins, Colorado
Denver, Colorado
San Francisco, California
Rochester and Palmyra, New York
Kirtland, Ohio
Nauvoo, Illinois
Independence, Missouri
Wilmington, North Caronlina

Durham, North Carolina














Newport Beach, California













Beaufort, North Carolina















New Bern, North Carolina



















Washington DC
















Charleston, South Carolina















Boise, Idaho














Philadelphia, Pennsylvania















Gettysburg, Pennsylvania











Williamsburg, Virginia















Luray, Virginia
















Myrtle Beach, South Carolina















Atlanta, Georgia















Birmingham, Alabama
















Vicksburg, Mississippi















Dallas, Texas














San Antonio, Texas















Outer Banks, North Carolina















Pigeon Forge, Tennessee















Orlando, Florida















Savannah, Georgia